Although we love living in Raleigh, we know that perfection doesn’t exist and everywhere has its drawbacks. So, to keep things real, we’ve come up with some reasons not to live in Raleigh, to make sure you have realistic expectations and knowledge before deciding whether to move here or not.
As much as we personally love calling Raleigh our home, we also know that it has some flaws like anywhere else and it is not for everyone! If you are thinking of relocating to Raleigh, then you may already know why Raleigh is a popular place to live but perhaps you’re not familiar with some of its drawbacks.
We first moved to Raleigh in 2004 and called it “America’s best kept secret”. But the secret is definitely out, and people are moving here in droves, and we’ve experienced a lot of the growth. We do love it here and have minimal complaints, but we hear and see the common complaints that others have.
If you are in the process of making a life altering decision like relocating from out of state – before you invest time, finances, and mental energy, we think it’s important you have as much perspective and awareness as possible. So, for that reason, below are the top complaints from people living in Raleigh so you can have a different perspective to our genuine glowing reviews.
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1. You can’t go to the beach before or after work!
We’re Australian and grew up by the ocean, so being close to a beach is something we’d grown accustomed to and also took for granted. If you’re also used to being near the beach, I’m sorry to break it to you, but you’re not going to get that in Raleigh!
One quick look at a map will tell you it’s pretty land locked. One thing I hear a lot of people complain about is that Raleigh is not on the beach, especially in the summer when all you want to do is jump in the ocean and feel the cool breeze.
That being said, Raleigh is not short of water. There are many beautiful lakes in the Raleigh area. And there’s a lovely golden sandy beach, Ebenezer Beach at Jordan Lake, which is 35-minute drive from downtown Raleigh. Plus, there are other places to swim near Raleigh!
By the way, the best beaches near Raleigh are just over a two-hours’ drive away, and doable as a day trip. Wrightsville Beach is two hours’ drive each way from Raleigh down I-40. We’ve done plenty of day trips to Wrightsville, and it’s one of our favorite beaches in North Carolina as it reminds us of home in Australia.
So, if you live in places like San Diego or Miami and LOVE the beach and it’s something you have grown up with and CANNOT live without in your daily life, if you must have a swim or surf before or after work, or on the weekends, then reconsider moving to Raleigh!
2. Lack of diversity in food (but it’s improving)
When we first moved here in 2004, the food scene was nothing to write about, but the Raleigh food scene has certainly thrived in recent years, and we now have James Beard award-winning chefs, innovative new restaurants and concepts moving in, so it is becoming much more diverse – it’s not just Carolina BBQ and your typical classic Southern dishes!
In fact, Raleigh continues to gain in prominence compared to other Southern foodie cities like Charleston, Nashville and Atlanta, and nearby Durham has been called “the tastiest town in the South” – and there is not much we can’t get here!
However, a lot of people who have moved here from, say, New York City, South Florida, California or Texas tend to complain about the quality, flavor, and lack of diversity of food options.
If you come from a foodie city, you might be disappointed in Raleigh. We didn’t move here for the food, and I know that it comes up short on amazing food when compared to other big cities.
On the flip-side, in my opinion, Raleigh has one of the best craft beer scenes in the nation and that comes from personally drinking many beers in Portland, San Diego, Seattle, Denver and Asheville, the most highly-rated beer destinations in the county, so beer lovers rejoice!
And coffee lovers, you are well taken care of too. No, Starbucks doesn’t cut it, and we love to support local, and we have some excellent local coffee shops in Raleigh that we frequent.
So, if you’re from New York and CANNOT LIVE WITHOUT your authentic New York style pizza and NY bagels (which they complain about a lot), or you Texans cannot live without your Tex-Mex and Californians your breakfast burritos, you are going to constantly complain about the food here and may choose not to live in Raleigh. But here are some great pizza places in Raleigh and good bagel joints.
3. Summer is HOT and HUMID
One of the main things people complain to us about is the humidity in the South, and we get it, humidity is tough to deal with if you’re not used to it. We might be weird as we love it, but we grew up with it in Australia, and it just suits our body better and embrace it.
Humidity is draining when it hits 90%. We don’t want to say to you don’t worry about it, you’ll be fine, because humidity affects people in different ways. It’s definitely something to think about. Another problem the humidity brings is the air conditioning. While some people love their A/C to be ice-box cold, I’m personally not a fan. Here is the average humidity in Raleigh.
When going to restaurants, cafes, malls or any indoor establishment in the summer, the A/C is usually arctic cold, which means you need to carry layers around wherever you go even though it’s hot outside. So, if you absolutely HATE humid summers, or carrying around layers, don’t move to Raleigh!
4. Pollen is a pain on the sinuses!
If you’re not used to pollen in the spring, it can be a pain on the sinuses, literally. It can get so thick sometimes that they call it the pollenpocalypse, and Raleigh ranks seventh in the nation as one of the worst places to live if you have allergies due to its pollen severity.
It can get everywhere, all over your car, your deck, your roof, your window screens, your clothes, and it can make sitting outside challenging at times. So, if you have issues with your lungs or sinuses or struggle with allergies related to pollen, consider not moving to Raleigh!
5. Hurricane season
Hurricane season naturally happens every year, and it’s a problem for many cities across the US, especially on the East Coast. In recent years, Hurricane Helene caused widespread destruction via flooding damage in Western North Carolina, devastating cities such as Asheville and Boone, and many other smaller communities. Our hearts absolutely break for those communities, but thankfully we were fine here in Raleigh.
But that’s not to say we don’t worry about them in the future. Hurricanes tend to hit the Southeast area in general quite hard, and being two hours’ drive inland from the coast, Raleigh usually just gets a lot of the heavy rain and some wind as a result. As you know, as soon as hurricanes go inland, they lose a lot of strength.
The thing about hurricanes vs, say, tornadoes, is at least you get several days warning so you can plan and prepare, or leave the area.
If you want to know what big storms have impacted Raleigh directly, the most recent hurricanes were Hurricane Matthew (2016), Hurricane Florence (2018), Hurricane Helene (2024) – Matthew and Florence were both Cat 1 and didn’t cause too much devastation, but Helene was Cat 4 and caused widespread catastrophic damage and numerous fatalities across the Southeast of the United States.
Helene was the worst hurricane in history since Hurricane Hazel in 1954, which took the Wilmington/Fayetteville/Raleigh track. This was the only Category 4 hurricane ever to make landfall in NC, and is regarded as the most deadliest and devastating in NC history.
Hurricane Fran hit in 1996 as a Category 3 and hit Raleigh directly causing the loss of power for 2–3 weeks across the triangle, with thousands of downed trees and power lines.
Wherever you live there’s going to be some form of natural disasters that could be a potential problem, but if hurricanes are of particular concern to you, keep this in mind. Here is a guide on how to prepare for a hurricane in Raleigh.
6. Capped schools (and overflow schools)
Because of the continuing growth of people moving to Raleigh, several Elementary, Middle and High Schools have reached the maximum number of students they can effectively teach. When that happens, the Board of Education may place an enrollment cap on the school.
If you recently moved to your home and are assigned to a capped school, your child may be assigned to an overflow school, which means they may have to study at a different school to the one you want. We know ourselves as parents that figuring out where your kids go to school is important and stressful, and many people choose a particular neighborhood to live in based on the school.
Your kids may not always be able to get into the school you expected based on your address. Before you pick your house, you may want to look into whether local schools have space first.
NOTE: you should still contact the data manager at your base school. It is possible there are available seats in certain grades at a capped school. Learn more about what schools are currently capped on the official Wake County Schools website. We also have an article on How to navigate the Wake County Public Schools, and a Podcast on how to choose a school in Raleigh.
7. Bugs, mosquitoes, and flying roaches
When a place is hot and humid, with a bit of rain thrown in (especially around water sources like lakes), you’re going to have mosquitoes and other annoying bugs, including flying roaches. The common species of cockroaches found in NC are the German, American, Oriental, and Pennsylvania wood cockroach.
German cockroaches are the most common we’ve found, and are characterized by their two black stripes running horizontally down behind their heads. Their bodies are light brown to tan in color. They are capable of flying – but there is nothing dangerous about flying cockroaches, they are just unsightly!
When we were buying a home here in Raleigh, one of the things at the top of our wish list was a screened in patio, or room to add one! We love to be outside as much as possible and even though we grew up with mosquitos and flies in Australia, the mosquitoes still drive us nuts here – so a screen porch allows you to be outside but without the bugs!
Just a note on window screens (fly screens). Not many people have window screens here. They don’t like the look of them and say that it takes away the aesthetic appeal of the home. That’s not to say you can’t have screens, we certainly do! You might just need to add them yourselves.
You can get pest control to deal with most bug issues, but if you really freak out about bugs, mosquitoes and FLYING roaches, this is your warning, lol.
8. It can rain a lot (sometimes)
In case you don’t know, Raleigh is literally a city within a forest, just fly into Raleigh-Durham Airport and you’ll get the picture, or drive down I-40. Raleigh is very green and has a lot of trees, hence why it’s referred to as The City of Oaks, which we think is awesome. However, it is green for a reason – because we do get our fair share of rain. Embrace it, otherwise it would not be so lush and green here.
July is typically the wettest month with up to 4.5 inches of rain. Click here for the average precipitation per month. If you prefer consistent dry weather like in the desert regions, keep this in mind. Here’s a list of things to do in Raleigh on a rainy day.
9. Copperhead snakes might scare you?
In Australia, we have 8 out of the 10 deadliest snakes in the world, among other deadly animals like spiders, crocs, and Great White Sharks, so we don’t have a great fear of snakes. The Raleigh native snake, the Copperheads, don’t really concern us too much either. But we understand the fear around snakes. The Copperhead snake is the most common venomous snake in North Carolina, and we’ve probably seen one in our whole time here (10+ years).
Obviously it would depend on where you are in the city – they are usually found in natural settings, as opposed to urban places. They mostly prefer woody areas and tall grass for cover.
You should be familiar with what they look like. They are around 24 to 40 inches long and have triangular heads. They are usually light brown or tan in color and have dark irregular bands patterned along its body.
You can also find them in gardens or along the exterior walls of a home, so be sure to check areas of your yard where there is a lot of wood, mulch, and leaf litter.
Copperheads are usually out and about during the day in the spring and fall, but during the summer they become nocturnal, and during the winter, it hibernates.
What can you do? Lay out traps and baits to address rats and/or mice to take away the snake’s food supply. Learn more here.
10. No big tourist attractions
One of the reasons we love living in Raleigh is because it’s not too big and not too small, and even though it’s the capital of North Carolina, to us, it still has a small-town feel. It’s just about right for us that it doesn’t have many big tourist attractions, which to us makes it very livable.
However, it can also be seen as a downside, as if you plan to open a business here, tourists would generate a big portion of income, so having a few major landmarks would help to boost the economy and help out small businesses.
Raleigh is a mid-size city, with a population 493,000 (2025), and metro area 1.6 million (2025) and that number grows by an estimated 1.16% annually in Wake County, so if you’re coming from a big city, it might be a bit too small and quiet for you if you need to be doing something 24/7.
Whilst we do love to visit big tourist cities, and have lived in major cities such as London, Bangkok and Sydney, we like coming home to Raleigh for peace and quiet. Just because it’s not a big tourist destination, doesn’t mean you’ll get bored and there’s nothing to do!
From our perspective, there’s plenty of things to do in Raleigh and always something going on like festivals and events, markets, breweries, coffee shops, Greenway trails, lakes and excellent free museums.
11. Life moves too SLOW here
We often hear from out of state people that things move too slow here, like customer service for example. This is because of that “small town feel” I mentioned. We find that yes, it can be slower paced, but people are more friendly here and want to talk to you. It might slow things down if you’re not used to that interaction, but it’s also something we love about the city of Raleigh.
I just think the Southern way is more relaxed and there’s not as much intensity here. If you’ve ever been to a place like Fiji where it’s super relaxed and basically useless to have a watch as things happen on Fiji time, think of it like that.
Don’t worry, it’s not THAT slow, it’s still very efficient. However, if you prefer hustle and bustle of Manhattan and things happening quickly, like yesterday, you might get frustrated.
12. Competitive real estate market
The real estate market in Raleigh has been on steroids here for quite some time with low inventory, high demand, and historically low interest rates. It seems like people keep coming and I don’t know where they’re coming from. The house prices in Raleigh do sit 2.5% below the national average (every % helps!) but it is still competitive. This is the case in many cities, so I don’t think you can avoid it too much.
Since more people these days have the ability to work from home and are not tied to a location job wise, people are constantly moving to more affordable and liveable cities, like Raleigh, for the better quality of life.
From what I see and hear, almost every home on the market sells for above list price, and is a multiple-offer situation, but again, that’s probably true for most markets currently!
The affordability of house prices is always what people say is a bonus about Raleigh, but in our experience, that hasn’t been the case. And I’m a licensed realtor here in Raleigh, so I know.
Here are some guides to help you: Tips for Buying a Home in Raleigh and Here’s How to Get a Taste of the City Before You Commit.
And if you want to listen to our own personal home buying experience in Raleigh, listen to our podcast below.
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13. Too many trees (wait…what?)
I read a funny complaint by a newcomer to Raleigh, who said that there are “too many trees blocking his view when driving so he couldn’t see any buildings or landmarks to get his bearings.” Say what? Strangest complaint I’ve heard yet about living in Raleigh NC. I don’t know about you, but I’d much rather look at trees and nature than an endless concrete jungle or strip malls.
I personally think the trees are one of THE BEST THINGS about living in Raleigh, and if we all had more nature and trees in our life we’d be a lot calmer and happier and the world would be a better place. But I do get that nature is not for everyone. If you’re used to NYC or LA and prefer the sight of buildings, Raleigh may be too green for you!
14. Only ONE pro sports team (no NFL, NBA, or MLB team here guys!)
If you come from cities like Boston, Chicago, Denver, NYC or any of the other major sporting cities that have all four professional sports teams (NFL, NBA, MLB and the NHL), just know that currently Raleigh only has one pro sports team, the NHL’s Carolina Hurricanes (Stanley Cup champions from 2006, with a raving and growing fan base called the Caniacs!)
Raleigh is a college town (North Carolina State University) and this is college sports territory, specifically ACC basketball with in-state rivals the NC State Wolfpack, UNC Tar Heels, and Duke Blue Devils all within a 40-minute drive of each other.
- Nearest NFL team is of course the Carolina Panthers in Charlotte: 2.5 hours drive
- Nearest NBA team is the Charlotte Hornets: 2.5 hours drive
- and the nearest MLB team is the Washington Nationals in D.C: 4.5 hours drive.
We do have the world-famous Durham Bulls Baseball team just 30-minutes up the road in Durham which is a great night out – minor league baseball rocks. And there is a movement to bring a MLB team to Raleigh. However, the NFL seems to be well followed here at sports bars, and several teams have a sports bar headquarters, like the Steelers fan club at Sammy’s Tap & Grill. I think you can find your teams tribe here easily enough.
Also, Soccer is a BIG deal in North Carolina. The area is home to North Carolina FC of the USL (men’s team), and the NC Courage (National Women’s Soccer League) who play at WakeMed Soccer Park.
But, if you love living in a city with ALL 4 PRO SPORTS teams, you won’t find that here in Raleigh! By the way, here are some of our favorite sports bars in Raleigh!
15. Too much traffic (and not enough public transportation)
I think people tend to complain about traffic no matter where they live, and it is always perspective. Sure, traffic in Raleigh has naturally increased with the consistent growth of people over recent years, and Raleigh doesn’t have a great public transport system compared to other cities. Most people get around Raleigh by driving.
Raleigh could do better to improve the public transportation system. We don’t like having to drive everywhere and miss the days of jumping on an efficient train system like the London Underground, the Skytrain in Bangkok, the MTR system in Hong Kong and Singapore, or the subway in NYC.
There is a bus rapid transit project in the plans, though, which will be in place by 2035 – yes, bit of a wait. And we have a helpful article on how to ride the bus in Raleigh.
But as far as traffic goes, if you have spent any time driving around cities like LA, Houston, D.C., Boston, or Atlanta for example, then Raleigh traffic is nothing compared to those places. If you come from a smaller city or more rural town, sure, you would probably say Raleigh has traffic issues. Again, it’s all perspective!
But for us, it’s only really rush hour in the mornings and afternoons that I would say you can get caught in decent traffic delays. But again, we’re not talking rush hour LA!
16. Some dodgy areas
The crime rate in Raleigh on the whole is pretty low, and it’s actually decreasing year on year. Violent crimes are rare, especially if you live in one of the more affluent neighborhoods. Typically, anywhere inside the belt line is pretty safe, although you might have the odd property crimes such as break ins and burglary.
However, there are some dodgy areas to be aware of. The Morre Square bus station area, and New Bern Avenue around the shady hotels and Capital District can be a bit dodgy, and some parts of East Raleigh are considered to be a high crime area. We’ve never had any issues though, and I would say typically in the daytime most areas are ok.
The violent crime rate in Raleigh is below the national average, with an estimated 31.88 crimes per 1,000 residents. But this crime tends to be isolated to particular areas, and most crimes are property crime such as damage or burglary, rather than violent crime.
A promising fact: Nearby Cary in Wake County, frequently makes the list of safest places to live in the USA. We share more insights on this and so much more in our free relocating to Raleigh guide. 👇👇
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17. High cost of living
Everyone says the cost of living in Raleigh has increased dramatically, but it can depend on you and your lifestyle. The stats say that Raleigh’s cost of living is 3% lower than the national average, but I would say that the cost of living is quite high on the whole for a single person – the average monthly costs for a single person being around $3,500 per month.
We find these estimates to be reflective of those who are lucky enough to have a high paid job, but we’re not all lucky to be in that position!
A 2024 study by CNBC and SmartAsset placed Raleigh as number 23rd city in the USA that needs the highest income to live “comfortably.” For Raleigh it’s $102,752, compared to Number 1, NYC at $138,570.
The good news is that jobs in Raleigh tend to be quite high paying, since it has a huge boom in the technology and finance sector, so you can earn a higher wage to offset these costs.
18. Not great nightlife
Ok, so nightlife is another thing that comes down to personal preference, but on the whole, we think Raleigh could do with a few more options for nightlife. There are some clubs and bars, and we love that there’s a craft beer and brewery scene, but it doesn’t have the same vibe check as say somewhere like NYC, LA or Miami does.
Most of the nightlife is isolated to particularly districts. The University District around Hillsborough St of course has bars that are frequented by students studying at NC State, the University of North Carolina, Duke University, whereas young professionals might go to Glenwood South.
Most live music venues in Raleigh are around Fayetteville Street and South Glenwood area, and again they are all localized. Glenwood South Ave is the party street, mostly frequented by the younger generations! Although nighttime isn’t popping, Raleigh does have a huge festival scene and there’s always an event happening in the summer, so you still get entertainment! Here is a guide to nightlife spots in Raleigh.
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Podcast Episode: Why NOT to live in Raleigh
If you’d like to hear us talk about all these points, watch our video below as we recorded a podcast about this very topic. And don’t forget to read our other article on why we LOVE living in Raleigh.
For those who may prefer watching a video of us podcasting, we filmed that for you too, which you’ll find on YouTube each week.
Video: Watch us talk about reasons NOT to live in Raleigh
Like I said, Raleigh is not perfect, and the grass is not always greener and it has its own growing pains going on. We understand growth happens, and you either evolve or die, but hopefully it is well managed growth and plan for it and learn from other cities who didn’t do such a great job of it and Raleigh keeps its uniqueness and identity as the City of Oaks!
I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, we love living in Raleigh because it’s RALEIGH, not because it’s a future Austin or Atlanta or Seattle, and we just hope they don’t ruin the whole fabric of the place – and please whatever you do Raleigh, don’t lose the TREES!
Please, if you do move to Raleigh, appreciate Raleigh for what it is, embrace it, engage with it, and don’t expect everything to be like it was back at your previous home, otherwise, what is the point in moving here in the first place?!
Final Thoughts
There you have it; those are a few things to contemplate before moving to Raleigh – some more trivial than others. When looking to buy a home, or when you move to a new city, it’s important to have a priority list of things important to you personally. What are your MUST haves; your non-negotiable items? That’s what we did when buying our home here in Raleigh.
You need to ask yourself; what can’t you live without? And what would be nice to have, but not essential? Keep that in mind when thinking about relocating to the city of Raleigh, NC!
If you’ve been following us on Instagram or Facebook and have joined our free email community, you’ll know how much we love the Raleigh lifestyle, we even wrote about reasons we love living in Raleigh and I think it would be hard to find a couple from out of state more naturally passionate about the city, than us!
But no place is perfect, and one thing we’ve learned from living in 5 other countries, and traveling through 50+ countries, is that it’s really important to figure out what you like, and what you don’t like, and what are your absolute deal breakers.
When we lived in Dublin, Ireland, for 12 months back in 2003 it was one of the most fun periods of our life, but we got to the point where we couldn’t deal with the constant dreary rain any longer. We realized that lifestyle was not going to suit us long-term – yes, the honeymoon period can cool off.
A lot of people contact us and ask, “what is it like living in Raleigh?” And ask us what’s bad about Raleigh, or tell us why they don’t like living here, so a lot of this is from personal experience, plus feedback from others in the community!
Yes, this article is a bit tongue-in-cheek because we’re always like, “who wouldn’t want to live in Raleigh?” When people visit Raleigh, even if for only 48 hours, they tend to love it and are pleasantly surprised about how cool Raleigh is. But there is a BIG difference between visiting a place and living in a place.
We’ve visited a lot of places that we love, but wouldn’t want to live there! And in my opinion, you need a good 6-months to get a real feel for a place and settle into the community, so keep that in mind!
I hope you found this post helpful, as we understand how much time, mental anguish, and finances go into such a big move, so we want you to have as much awareness as possible. Here are other essential things to know about Raleigh before moving here.
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Great list! We moved to the area in April 2021 after doing extensive research on the area and having made several visits down and it is shocking to us that how prattle research people do before moving down here and the have the audacity to complain about how the things are (that they clearly chose not to look into!!!). We had looked into real estate prior to the pandemic and in beginning of it and clearly it was a very different market then but we continued to keep our eyes on it and had an awesome realtor who kept us in the loop and was honest about how tough the market was becoming. That said we moved here with realistic expectations and we’re able to buy the perfect house for us, in our budget in an area that we could afford. It meant we had to do a lot of planning, make some quick decisions and be able to make some significant adjustments to our original plans. Again, we knew that would not only be possible but would be probable. In terms of food and activities, is it NY…nope, it’s it Chicago, Miami, Texas, or Cali…nope, it’s certainly not, which is why we all came here. We are having a blast eating our way through the plethora of restaurants in the triangle. If we don’t like the food somewhere we simply don’t go back! We don’t publicly bash any establishment or an area as a whole because a restaurant doesn’t suit our personal taste. We have found excellent Italian, Dim Sum, Sushi (had our first M Sushi experience last night and OMGEEEEE!!!!) and will continue to seek out other awesome places. That’s what you do when you move somewhere, anywhere. You try new things and find what you love and enjoy the adventures along the way!!!! Thanks again for this list, it’s brilliant for those contemplating a move to the area, but hopefully they have done their own research and even if they haven’t, please consider how ridiculous it is to complain about things that make an area exactly what the area is
Hi Dana,
Glad you found the list helpful, and welcome, you have the right attitude about relocating to Raleigh! As you said, is it NY, nope, it’s it Chicago, Miami, Texas, or Cali…nope! And we’re happy about that, because if every place was the same it would be very boring! We like to visit those places and enjoy what they have to offer, but we love to live in Raleigh because it’s Raleigh and it has it’s own uniqueness.
Yes, when people are thinking about making a huge move which takes up a lot of time, resources and finances, it’s important they do some due diligence and research and have an expectation of where they are moving to. You can get away with little planning if it’s just a vacation, but when you are relocating your whole life, that is a different story!
Glad you are enjoying the Raleigh food scene, we do have some excellent restaurants here, and it’s important to at least try and embrace the different foods on offer and appreciate them for what they are! All the best with your new life here!
I just want to say, y’all’s family is just spoiled. I mean Raliegh is an amazing place. Your bullet points are stupid on so many levels. Apparently you guys aren’t the type of family that does outdoor activities and you can’t handle the heat. We have nice winters and rarely ever get hurricanes. I don’t like how your article described Raliegh. Even though I am only ten I have a good description of Raliegh. People that have lived here there whole life love it here. You are just going to scare people away from their home. Your article was offensive on so many levels. Raliegh is amazing and your family is just spoiled. You piss me off. I am very mad I came across this article. We have neighborhoods that are very awesome and safe that can prevent fires across all of us because we are spaced out. You are just so annoying and I hope I don’t come across anymore of your articles. You scare people away with the articles. Your convince them in and then drive twice as many people out. I hate your article and hope you take it down. It’s very very offensive and I don’t appreciate it. Your bullet points don’t make any sense. Like this one: Too many trees. I mean what the hell. What do you mean too many trees. We have a good amount of trees for your information. You are so annoying I don’t like you at all.
From- 10 year old
Oh dear. I think you might need to read the article properly to understand what we’re saying. I get that you’re only 10, so you’re reading abilities may not be up to scratch Ellie. So I’m going to pull out a few statements we wrote in the introduction that clearly shows how much we love RAleigh. We also wrote this article because we have many people asking us What it’s like to live here. Now as adults, making decisions like where to live is very important. It costs a lot of time and money. You want to make the right decision We know as we’ve done it many times – 11 times internationally. Yes. We’ve lived in 5 countries and traveled to over 50 and we think Raleigh is the BEST place to live in the world. But not everyone thinks like that. Raleigh is fantastic but it is not perfect. It’s important for those thinking of moving here to understand that. WE don’t want them to move here and then endlessly complain about it. In fact, all the points we have addressed in this article come from the complaints we have heard about people living here. And we want to help those kinds of people to learn before moving here that it’s not the place for them, so we don’t have to hear them complain anymore. And we totally agree on the too many trees point. I’m pretty sure our comments show we also think it’s ridiculous and the number one thing we always talk about across our blog, podcast and social media is how much we love the trees so you might want to do further research to really understand who we are. AGain, you are only 10 so might not understand that.
But, back to the points from the article that clearly show we love living in Raleigh: You can go back and reread the article – another important reading skill. I’m sure you’ll find a lot more.
We first moved to Raleigh in 2004 and we’ve said from day one that Raleigh is “America’s best kept secret” and have been singing its praises ever since.
If you’ve been following us on Instagram or have joined our free email community, you’ll know how much we love the Raleigh lifestyle, we even wrote about 34 reasons we love living in Raleigh and I think it would be hard to find a couple from out of state more naturally passionate about the city, than us
If you’d like to hear more of our story, go listen to episode 1 and episode 2 of our podcast which talks a lot about how we ended up relocating to Raleigh, how we got Green Cards and have put down permanent roots!
Yes, this article is a bit tongue-in-cheek because we’re always like, “who wouldn’t want to live in Raleigh?”
e strongly believe the pros of living in Raleigh far outweigh any of the negatives
Great article Craig. You know I’m a big fan of your newsletter! The only two things on the list that shook me a bit were the flying roaches and copperhead snakes. (Though I did know of both before reading the list) However, neither will prevent me from moving to the Raleigh area! There are so many positive things about the area that far outweigh any perceived or real negatives. The warm and friendly people, the greenery, the small city feel, the craft beer scene, the seemingly endless family friendly events, and the cost of living are major pluses. Even with the significant increased cost of purchasing a home, there is no comparison in terms of value to what you pay in the New York metro area.
Anyway, thanks for another excellent piece and keep up the excellent work!!
Thanks Steve, appreciate you being a part of our email community! I definitely would not let roaches and copperhead snakes deter you from living in Raleigh. We’ve been here from 2004 and have seen one copperhead, and they are not aggressive. And like I said, we grew up in Australia with 8 out of 10 most poisonous snakes in the world and have never had an issue. Same with cockroaches, we grew up with them too. There is honestly something no matter where you live. Yes, the positives far outweigh the negatives, and the value for money here is still great compared to say NY and Sydney where we come from!
Cheers,
Craig
Thanks for the reassurance Craig! I’ve visited Arizona numerous times and fortunately never encountered a Diamondback, so I won’t let NC Copperheads stop me! And I agree about the value in the Raleigh are, in spite of these past few years of increases. Let’s see what happens to home prices once the Fed raises interest rates. Might be a cooling off!
Best,
Steve
Yes for sure, glad we locked in a low 30yr fixed interest rate.
What an amazingly well done article. I think you perfectly captured all of the positives and negatives of living in Raleigh. More emphasis needed on the fact that if you prefer no customer service coldness and speed please for the love of god go move somewhere else. That is what a former northerner like me cherishes here. I moved here before it was trendy and the NJ CA NYC people are ruining it. Please just go home if you like being treated like crap, honked at in traffic, and over all treat cashiers like computers.
Yes!! 100% agree. We absolutely love the customer care and slow pace. IT is what makes Raleigh such a great place to live. We’ve always said, Raleigh has some of the friendliest people we’ve ever met – and we’ve been to plenty of countries, and cities within countries. I hope that never changes just to get a faster pace of life. It’s not needed here. Keep Raleigh Raleigh
I’m so sorry you’re not having a good time living in Raleigh. It certainly has some challenges and is experiencing a lot of growing pains at the moment. I lived in an area I didn’t like back in Australia and I know how it can bite at your soul. I started pretending I was a traveler in my town, which helped me experience it with a different set of eyes and got me through until I eventually could leave. I hope you can find some peace moving forward and all goes well with your parents.
Thank you for your kind words. After further consideration I believe removing my post would be for the best so please take it down. It’s a bit too gritty for your site. I wrote this before my covid19 fever broke. I am much better now.
I have done that for you Bruce. Glad you’re feeling much better.
Despite this being an older post, I felt inclined to comment and say thank you for how you approached this topic. I was born and raised in Raleigh and have spent most of my life here. Seeing how Raleigh has changed over the past few years has been difficult. I was lucky to buy a home in nearby Garner in 2020, but many of my friends who are ready to take that step can’t afford to live in Raleigh or the surrounding areas anymore. We often hear or see comments with transplants complaining about our city, which is upsetting given that it’s been changing so much to attract people from out of state while at the same time, many natives are being pushed out. This post gave me hope that more prospective Raleighites will throughly research the area and embrace it once they get here. We’re pretty welcoming to transplants when they aren’t complaining about things we grew up with and love!
Thank you for this comment, Jennifer. We agree with you! We love how Raleigh is evolving, and we have always found it the most welcoming and friendly place. We hate hearing all the complaining. To us if you choose to move here, you can choose to move away if you’re not happy. It’s one reason we moved away from Australia. We love it but weren’t happy living there. That wasn’t the place’s fault, it’s just we wanted different things and it’s not right for us to try and change it to suit us. We’ve love living here and embracing Raleigh as it is. I can totally understand how native Raleighites get annoyed by the complaining considering their hometown has changed so much. WE feel very lucky to be here.
It’s actually funny that you mentioned the trees thing. I was visiting my boyfriend’s side of the family and as we were driving into Raleigh I told him, “Wow, there’s a lot of trees here” The amount of trees was obviously a lot for me to point that out haha. Nice article. I may or may not be moving here depending on this job I have been interviewing for.
Hi Raven, yes, one of our favorite things about living in Raleigh is all the trees! If you end up moving to Raleigh, we are happy to help!
During mosquito season in the triangle, which I’ve read is from March through October, can someone shop and walk the sidewalks during the daytime without being buzzed by mosquitoes? I’ve read that the area is infested with the Asian Tiger mosquito, which hunts by day.
Bob
I have not experienced mosquito issues during the day -I guess if you are near water, but not on the sidewalks. I would not say the area is infested with mosquitos- although there are mosquitoes.