19 Unique and fun date ideas for Raleigh (from a couple who does them)

It can be difficult coming up with date ideas in Raleigh NC when you feel you’ve exhausted your options. As a local couple who live here, we’re always on the hunt for new and unique things to do as a couple, and we’re excited to share our date night ideas with you!

Even though February is the month of love with Valentine’s Day, we believe love, date nights, and daytime togetherness can and should happen year-round!

So, if you’re looking for Raleigh date ideas for any occasion, not just super romantic settings, then you’ve come to the right place!

people sitting at a rooftop bar
Amazing rooftop views from 10th and Terrace Bar at Residence Inn Hotel, downtown Raleigh

We believe that date nights should be about sharing memorable moments with someone, be in a place where you can share conversation, get to know each other, and simply enjoy being present in each other’s company.

It’s so easy to fall back on the romantic dinner date when you’re too busy to think outside the box. But why do that when we have some out of the box ideas for you below?

We’re here to make it easier for you to enjoy romantic time with a special someone, with loads of Raleigh date ideas for all occasions.

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What makes us knowledgeable about date ideas in raleigh? 

couple taking a selfie Wye Hill Kitchen & Brewing with raleigh skyline in background
Drinks at Wye Hill, Raleigh

Like most things in our life, we feel like we’re just throwing spaghetti against the wall and seeing what sticks!

But, after 21 years of traveling together (and marriage), Craig and I feel confident we know how to experience a city in fun and unique ways that also nurture our relationship and keep us feeling charged with love after all these years.

A couples experience does not always have to be an expensive dinner and a night out on the town.

We believe the best date ideas can be those where you simply spend time together and learn together, adventure together, and have loads of fun – day or night!

Everything on this list we’ve personally experienced and felt the romance in the air.

Whether you’re looking for first date ideas, you’re newly dating and need a setting to get to know each other better, engaged, married for 20 years, straight or LGBTQ, these date ideas for Raleigh will suit any kind of couple. 

people posing for the camera in front of a bar
Haymaker Cocktail Bar

If you have kids like us, consider more day time dates, or early evening, especially if you have an older child who can mind the younger siblings. We love that our teen can now do that and we don’t have to worry about hiring a sitter. 

The Best Date Ideas for Raleigh NC

You will find a few traditional date ideas in our list, just because traditional and normal can sometimes be good. All you have to do is spice it up with a good view, live music, a spicy cocktail and you’re making memories! 

Don’t keep this list of Raleigh date night ideas just for Valentine’s Day! We have a separate guide for that. Click here if you’re looking for date ideas in Raleigh for Valentine’s Day.

1. Go For A Fancy romantic dinner (A Classic)

Looking for a quieter, more intimate date night with a meal and ambiance to enhance the romance?

There is no shortage of romantic restaurants in Raleigh that are perfect for a Valentine’s Date or a couples date any time of the year.

Out of all the date ideas listed below, this is probably the one we’ve done the least, so far, due to babysitter challenges, but we’ve done a ton of lunch and coffee dates and always enjoy fancy dinners when we do!

Two fantastic dinner date experiences we’ve had include:

A couple of restaurants still high on our list for having some of the best dishes and local flavors:

2. Go On Cocktail Crawls + Visit Secret Speakeasies

people smiling for the camera while holding drinks
Killjoy Cocktail Bar

If you’re searching on your phone for romantic things to do near me, a few cocktails at a cool bar or speakeasy is hard to beat and we have some cool bars in Raleigh!

After my first speakeasy encounter walking through the locker door in an old middle school building into a hidden world of class and cocktails, I was hooked on finding more.

Raleigh has a couple of classy speakeasies and cocktail bars waiting for you and your romantic partner to explore. This is the wild fun night on the town for those dates when you’re ready to let loose.

A few of our favorites for their vibe and outstanding cocktails:

  • Watts and Wards is my favorite bar in Raleigh and has a pure 1920s Prohibition vibe. Don’t let that door leading underground deceive you into thinking you’re walking into a tiny space. Believe me, there is plenty of room for everyone here. Pre-COVID their jazz night here was CLASSY. I don’t think they have returned.
  • Whiskey Kitchen – a beautiful open space and hip venue with a repurposed industrial feel. Over 300 whiskies plus craft cocktails, beer and wine options you can’t go wrong. Not sure which whiskey to drink, try a flight.
  • Dram & Draught – excellent range of whiskeys from around the world, plus seasonal cocktails, wines, and draught beer from Raleigh and beyond.

  • The Merchant: Find the non-descript vintage door on Salisbury St, next to (and leading above ) Virgils, and esaceo to a sultry and sexy speakeasy space with mood lighting, eclectic decor and creative libations. (Side note: Their Halloween decorations were pretty cool!!)
  • Killjoy Cocktail: Not a speakeasy but possibly my favorite cocktails in Raleigh served up in a fresh, fun and colorful vibe. This is the kind of bar where you can tell the mixologist how you feel and they’ll whip up an elixir to match.
  • The Greenlight – that vibe you want hidden behind a bookshelf in the Architect Bar. Be warned this dimly-lit, old architect’s office is small and may involve a wait. Get there as early as you can.
  • 10th and Terrace – cool rooftop bar and lounge at the top of the Residence Inn hotel in downtown Raleigh. Read our full review here.
  • Level7 rooftop bar at AC Hotel in North Hills. Read our full guide to North Hills.

Craig and I often sit at the bar when we get time out from the kids. It’s a special treat as we still get our alone time talking and tasting cocktails, but it’s mixed in with a fun chat with the bartender, or someone ordering a drink. 

This is also a good idea for those first kinds of dates where they may be a little awkward. Nothing like a good bartender to rescue the conversation!

Here are some of our favorite cocktail bars in Raleigh.

3. Live out your Travel Dreams at an international-inspired restaurant

two people holding glasses of beer and smiling at the camera
Enjoying a Guinness in Dublin, Ireland 2003

Way back in the year 2000, Craig and I would walk around our local RV park on the beach in Australia pretending we were on vacation. We’d walk and dream about making travel the center of our lives. 

22 years later, over 50 countries traveled including two RV trips that went from 10 months ( USA) to 18 months (Australia) and to permanent life as a foreigner in Raleigh. I think I can safely say, living out our travel dreams from where we were helped us to make them a reality!

This is probably my favorite of all our date ideas and we still do this all the time.  

Lately, it’s been lunches on the Greek patio at Taverna Agora, watching live soccer games at London Bridge Pub, or Scottish road trip planning at home with a Lonely Planet and a glass of Sassenach whiskey (thank you Outlander), and you could even do this idea in a Raleigh coffee shop.

Whatever country you are dreaming of, Raleigh will have a restaurant, or drink, to help you travel there in an instant. 

Dreaming of Italy, consider:

Dreaming of France, consider:

Dreaming of the UK, consider:

Dreaming of Mexico, consider:

Dreaming of the Mediterranean, consider:

Couples who dream together, create fun-filled lives together!

4. Tour Raleigh Murals

Mural in Five Points, Raleigh
Cool mural in Five Points

Instagram husbands are you ready? Raleigh’s mural scene is flourishing with what feels like new public art pieces (color) popping up every day. We love exploring murals, discovering new articles, and connecting more deeply to what Raleigh values.

Mural tours are something we frequently do together in new cities we visit. It is loads of fun and the photos make awesome memories and fun wall decorations.

This one we did on Melrose Ave in LA is still one of our favorites and we loved exploring the murals in the River Arts District, in Asheville

woman taking photo of Welcome to Raleigh, mural
514 New Bern Ave Raleigh

A fun date experience would be to bike around to the murals in Raleigh and see who can strike the best pose.

Plan your mural tour around a cup of coffee, lunch, and drinks. The Warehouse District and downtown Raleigh would probably be the best place for this day date.

  • Black & White Coffee in the Warehouse District has delicious seasonal lattes and a Raleigh Pride mural on the ground. 
  • Videri Chocolate Factory is in the same building, which only makes your date more sweeter.
  • Trophy Brewing on Morgan St has several noteworthy murals on the back of their building related to Black American history and culture. That would be a top spot for a lunch or beer break.
  • The Dogwood Bar & Eatery on Glenwood South has fire pits, cocktails, and an angel wings mural. 

 

Here’s a mural map to help plan your day. 

Why not up the romance and have a professional photographer capture your mural moments? Jen Bauldree took many of our photos around Raleigh for this website, including in front of many murals and she was great at helping us pose!

a couple smiling at each other
Photo by Jen Bauldree

5. Flex that Competitive Edge at Drive Shack

man playing golf at drive shack
Drive Shack, Raleigh

Looking for fun things for couples to do? A little bit of competition will always spice up the romance.

In our 21 years of marriage, I think I have beaten Craig once in tennis and pool, and never in golf, but I run rings around him on the netball court.

There are a lot of fun experiences and attractions in Raleigh to help you flex your muscles – or brain – and battle it out together. 

Make it that whoever wins gets to pay for the next date – or make it more erotic if you want. Up to you!

  • Swinging golf clubs at Drive Shack is always a laugh. I hate normal golf, but enjoy this.
  • The retro vibes of Boxcar Bar & Arcade makes for a buzzing date with hundreds of arcade-style games, pinball machines and console games.
  • Drink beer and throw some axes together. In Morgan Street Food Hall, you’ll find Epic Axe and sometimes breweries have mobile axe throwing. Fortnight Brewing Company in Cary regularly does. 

Check out this video to see the tough competition I have. Craig nails a bullseye on his very first attempt WHILE filming it for a commercial. As we say in Australia, “This was fair dinkum

6. Head to a Sporting Event

Keep that high energy vibe going by taking in a sporting match together.

While we may not have many professional sporting teams in Raleigh, we have plenty of college games to attend. I think the energy is more electric with college sports anyway. 

Except for ice hockey, the one pro sports team we do have in Raleigh. It’s one of my favorite sports to experience: action packed, fast paced, with very entertaining chants and songs. And a night at the Durham Bulls baseball during the summer is always loads of fun!

A large crowd of people watching an ice hockey game in an arena
Raleigh is home to the Carolina Hurricanes

If you can’t make it to a live game, head to one of the many sports bars in Raleigh to watch it on the big screen – Carolina Ale House, Tobacco Road Sports Cafe & Brewery, and The Players Retreat are good ones!

7. Go Vinyl shopping

woman shopping for vinyls at hunky dory raleigh
Love this Raleigh date idea – Hunky Dory Records

One of the most fun ways to get to know your partner, or new date, is to see what records (vinyls) make their carry home bag.

This is one of our favorite things to do in Raleigh – even as a family.

The vinyls we discover lends itself to sharing our memories and stories – even from before we got together. It usually ends up in a dance party once we get home and play our newly bought records. 

Do not miss Hunky Dory Records (also a location in Durham). Craig and I frequently pop in here without the kids to sit at the bar, drink a local brew, chat with whoever comes in, and buy a few records for our collection.

Pour House Music Hall has another great collection of vinyls on the second level of their popular live music venue.

The record shop also features a full-bar with 5 draft beers, and they often have free live performances, album release parties, listening parties, record signings and more!

We have a post with some of our favorite vinyl stores in Raleigh.

8. Take a hike

woman looking out over Bond Park, Cary, NC
Bond Lake, Cary

Craig and I have been hiking since we first set off on our honeymoon in 2002. I remember often feeling scared to scale great heights, especially if ladders were involved, and feeling like I was okay as Craig was behind me looking out for me.

It’s a great team bonding experience – any kind of outdoor adventure is. 

Granted, you won’t find those kinds of challenging hikes in Raleigh, but you will find the kind you can relax together on, talk on a deeper level with no distractions, and just feel good out in nature.

If you ever need serious relationship conversations a hike could be the place to help make it a less heated conversation – now there’s a date with a difference!

A bench next to a body of water
Lake Johnson west loop

Our favorite hike is Lake Johnson Nature Park, the Company Mill and Loblolly trail in Umstead State Park, and now we regularly walk Bond Lake together. You’ll find more hiking ideas here.

Why don’t you challenge yourselves? Aim to walk x-amount of miles together each month. You could turn that fun date challenge into a way to explore a little further afield for romantic day trips from Raleigh or weekend getaways. 

Don’t think weekend getaways can be romantic if a hike is involved? You have not yet lived. There is nothing better than unwinding together after a challenging hike at a brewery, around the fire, or over a farm-to-table dinner.

9. Go for a Paddle

woman paddle boarding on a lake
Paddling on Lake Raleigh

Let’s keep to the outdoor adventure for a second. Raleigh may not be on the beach, but it’s filled with many lakes and waterways waiting for you to explore in a kayak or on a paddle board. You could even do it during the cooler months.

During a Raleigh summer, Craig and I will regularly take our stand-up paddle boards out on Lake Johnson, Jordan Lake, or Lake Raleigh. This year we have it on our list to paddle the Neuse River and Robertson Millpond Preserve.

Here are the best places for stand-up paddle boarding in Raleigh.

10. Bike the Greenway Trails

couple by a lake with bike helmets on

One of our favorite ways to explore Raleigh is on any of the 104 miles of Greenway trails (or hike them if you want).

For Craig’s birthday last year, we had a fantastic daytime date. We cycled along the Walnut Creek Trail from Lake Johnson to Lake Raleigh, then onto the Rocky Branch Trail into downtown Raleigh and Hillsborough Street where we stopped for coffee at Jubala, and then lunch at The Players Retreat.

man at table with burger and beers at The Players Retreat, Raleigh, North Carolina
Birthday beer & burger at Players Retreat

So plan your date bike ride to include some favorite local places to eat and drink on the way. Another great trail is the Art to Heart Trail from the North Carolina Museum of Art to downtown Raleigh.

You can spend time at the art museum beforehand and stop at cafes along the way (Lucky Tree Cafe), and finish with a brew and a view at Wye Hill Kitchen and Brewing.

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Drinks at Wye Hill Kitchen & Brewing

On our list for this year is to ride the Neuse River Greenway Trail, the White Oak, and maybe even the Tobacco Trail all the way to Durham!

Video: Biking the Walnut Creek Trail (our daytime date)

11. Explore art and more on First Friday

Speaking of art, why not embrace the fun of First Friday with that special someone.

Craig and I were not typically the kind of couple to visit an art museum together (even on our own), but since taking part in First Friday several times in Raleigh, we’ve come to really enjoy the experience.

We now regularly incorporate visits to art galleries, museums, and artistic events in Raleigh.

I love walking through living breathing art studios, seeing the work in progress, meeting the artists, and supporting locals. It’s a lovely way to get to know your city and discover the artistic tastes of your partner.

We like to pair the experience with something else – a cocktail, dinner, hike etc.

Extra reading:

12. Watch Live Music – From Bluegrass to Rock and in between

woman on banjo and man sitting down with guitar
Fun times at the Bluegrass festival

A date that involves live music goes straight to my heart. Craig gets it. Here are the live music dates he’s organized for me over the past couple of years:

  • Chris Stapleton live at Walnut Creek
  • The Talbott Brothers live in Nashville (make that a date weekend!)
  • Imagine Dragons live at PNC Arena!
  • Even, the Nashville cast at Red Hat Amphitheater.
couple posing at Christ Stapleton concert, Walnut Creek

We’ll chase down any style of music in any kind of venue from dancing to cover bands at Tony’s Taps & Oysters in Cary to jamming at the World Bluegrass Festival in downtown Raleigh and embracing hip hop and rap at Dreamville Festival.

Raleigh’s music scene just keeps getting better and better.

13. Enjoy Candlight Concerts

string quartet playing on small stage surrounded by candles

What about listening to a string quartet play songs from some of your favorite modern artists in an enchanting location under the spellbinding light of candles (they are fake though for safety purposes?

This is a magical date night experience in Raleigh… not just for romantic relationships but for dates with your best friends or children.

I took my eldest daughter to the Merrimon-Wynne House in Historic Oakwood to the Tribute to Taylor Swift. The room was filled with couples on dates, groups of girlfriends on a night out, and parents with their kids.

Kalyra and I both loved it!

Candlelight concerts happening a few times a month with tributes to artists like Nirvana, Coldplay, Imagine Dragons, Fleetwood Mac and Taylor Swift! Click to read more in our guide to candlelight concerts in Raleigh.

See all concerts, locations, times, and availability here.

14. Dinner and a Movie at Once

How do you put a spark into a movie date night? Visit a cinema that delivers delicious meals and cocktails straight to your reclining seat.

As Aussies, I still can’t get over that you can purchase alcohol at a movie theater here, let alone have a meal delivered. 

Can you imagine the cultural thrill we experience going to a dinner and a movie cinema concept?

MX CinéBistro in Cary is a more luxury dine-in theater feel with cozy, oversized leather seats, chef-crafted American Bistro cuisines, fine wines, and signature cocktails. Extra romance bonus: CineBistro is a 21yrs+ date-night-bliss venue after 6pm

A little more casual is the Alamo DraftHouse in East Raleigh. Alamo Drafthouse’s menu features burgers, pizzas, salads, snacks and desserts prepared fresh from locally sourced ingredients. 

The gluten free pizza I had here was very good. They also have over 30 beers on tap supporting local microbreweries, handcrafted cocktails and award-winning milkshakes.

15. Watch a movie under the stars

Why not take a trip back to the nostalgia days of romance and make your date a drive in movie?

Or, during the warmer months, you will find outdoor movies under the stars in places like Koka Booth Amphitheatre in Cary, the Raleigh Rose Garden, and North Hills’ Midtown Park.

16. Enjoy a night of Comedy

couple on comedy club date night
Got our laughs on at the Comedy night

Right before COVID changed everything, Craig and I went to a comedy show in the makeshift tent out the back of Cotton House Brewery in Cary. 

We had a blast and it has been one of our favorite Raleigh date night experiences. The comedians were so funny, the drinks great, the atmosphere cozy, and at only $10 a ticket an affordable date night experience. 

This may be a great date experience for newbie daters. Laughter can ease all kinds of awkwardness.

 Goodnight’s Comedy Club has been Raleigh’s premier comedy venue for more than 30 years and has seen comedians such as Jay Leno, Jerry Seinfeld, Chris Rock, and Ellen DeGeneres.

17. Getaway to Umstead Hotel & Spa: The Ultimate in Luxury

Alright, time to unplug and reconnect the body, mind, and, spirit.

While Craig and I haven’t done an Umstead Spa Experience together, I have done one on my own, and Craig and I have had couples spa experiences in other places.

A $5 Thai massage was almost a daily thing when we lived in Bangkok. 

The Umstead Spa and Hotel in Cary is the ultimate luxury escape.

Hidden on 12 acres of beautiful landscaped gardens and woodlands, it’s the only Forbes Five-Star Hotel in North Carolina.

The Umstead Spa has two levels of relaxation and rejuvenation with whirlpool, steam, sauna, and separate lunges for men and women.

There’s a spacious co-ed lounge, outdoor pool and meditation garden for you to relax together after a couples massage. 

Spend the day there and make use of the facilities you can access with your treatment and see why it’s consistently acclaimed among the best spas in Raleigh.

Many have told me a meal at Heron’s Restaurant here is the ultimate splurge in fine dining. You could up the ante on this romance and stay the night! See prices here.

18. Stretch out together in a Yoga Class

women doing yoga on a grass covered field
A couples Yoga class in a winery

Why not Zen out together? 

When Craig and I first started dating, we’d do weekly yoga classes together. It blew my mind at how flexible he was, and we still, 20 years later, laugh at the jaw yoga exercises we had to do. 

Yoga does not have to be an individual practice, doing it with a partner can have a positive effect beyond the physical that includes increased relationship satisfaction, increased communication and trust, and improved intimacy and sex life. (read more here)

Who’d have thought a downward dog and an om could do that? Unwind with a nice cup of tea after, or a delicious brunch. 

CAM Raleigh (contemporary art museum) in the Warehouse District has Soul yoga sessions each Saturday morning. You can follow up your yoga session by perusing the contemporary art collections after. Although it doesn’t open until 12, so grab yourself a drink at Heirloom Brewshop for an hour, and a beer after it at Crank Arm Brewing!

19. Take a class together

two people smiling for the camera while making food
Couples cooking class

Why not learn a new skill together? 

Craig and I have had fun on our travels enjoying a cooking class at Jacob’s Creek Winery (one of Australia’s best) on a couple’s getaway, and we once took a barista course in Sydney – probably one of the reasons we are such coffee snobs. 

Whether it’s cooking, cocktail making, dancing, or art, Raleigh is bound to have a class you can take your date to for a couple hours of creative fun.

  • Wine & Design is the perfect date to create memories and masterpieces. Enjoy a glass of wine as you compare canvasses on a two hour class.
  • Killjoy has a special Valentine’s Day Cocktail making class. You’ll be learning how to woo that special someone with a sweet libation from some of the best mixologists in Raleigh.

20. Sunset picnic at Dorothea Dix

dorothea dix sunset
Dix Park – such a pretty sunset spot

It may be a little chilly for you in the month of February (and possibly a little bleak), but with Raleigh you can never quite tell, and you may not even care.

Sometimes even a romantic picnic in winter can boost our spirits and deepen our bonds to that special someone.

Dorothea Dix Park is one of the best places in Raleigh for sunset. There is plenty of space for a walk before sunset (or even to kick a ball around if that is your thing!) It’s also a perfect spot for some couple’s portraits.

A large green field with a city in the background
Dorothea Dix Park

It’s even more of an unmissable Raleigh moment during the warmer months. Look out for the many festivals on in this park and cool things like the Sunflower Fields!

Here’s our complete guide of things to do in Dorothea Dix Park and the incredible free guided walking tour of Dix Park.

21. Get Your Ninja On at OC Aerial

We discovered OC Aerial, an indoor adventure park in Durham, when we visited with our two daughters.

Craig and I agree this would have made an awesome date idea for new couples who need a fun way to break the ice and just have fun together! Or perhaps your both really into fitness and need a fun way to work out!

This 16,000 square feet facility has FOUR ninja courses, a 165 foot zip line, 2 slides, a rock climbing wall and a high ropes course set 16 feet in the air.

You could easily spend a couple of hours here challenging each other to a ninja battle.

It’s also only a 35 minute drive from Raleigh, making it easy to get to. The only downside is there isn’t much around OC Aerial, so if you want to get a drink after, you’ll need to head back into town.

22. Play Arcade Games at Boxcar Bar + Arcade

We love the retro vibes of Boxcar Bar, and it’s so much fun playing all the arcade games – from classic pinball to air hockey. If you’re in your 30s and above, you’ll love the old school games that take you back to your childhood.

Younger couples will love it here too, especially for the lively environment which takes away any awkwardness on a first date.

There are loads of tables where you can sit and talk, and the drinks are affordable too. You can also bring in outside food (but not drinks).

23. Challenge Each Other to Mini golf

Mini golf is a great date activity! It’s friendly competition but not the kind of activity you take seriously. We’ve had

There’s plenty of places to play mini golf in Raleigh, but we love Adventure Landing and Frankie’s of Raleigh, though Frankie’s has a more “adult” vibe to Adventure Landing which is often full of families with kids.

If you do visit these places, you can also do things like laser tag, go-karting and batting cages, which are great activities to do on a date!

24. rollerskate at united skates of america

Want a fun date idea to impress a lady? Show her your moves at a rollerskate rink! United Skates of America is a chain of roller rinks, and the one in Raleigh is the only one in North Carolina!

There’s a 10,000 square feet, smooth-rolling platform for you to glide around on, plus plenty of seating and a cafe where you can take breaks.

What I love about United Skates of America is the music! It’s old school classics that every generation can enjoy.

It’s a good idea to check the schedule before you go, as they sometimes have “adult only” skate nights which is way better for date night. Nothing kills a vibe than screaming kids – we love kids, but not on date night.

There’s also an arcade for when your legs get tired and you need to change things up.

25. go bowling

Man bowling a bowling ball

Like mini golf, bowling is another sport you can play as a couple that can be friendly competition but without being too serious. I would argue the worse you are at bowling, the more fun it can be!

We love the vibe of Kings in North Hills for a date night setting at a bowling alley. It has a moodier ambiance with neon lights and leather seating, which is much more romantic than some of the other lanes in Raleigh. Plus, there’s some pool and snooker tables you can enjoy after a couple of games.

There’s also a full bar where you can get alcoholic (or non-alcoholic) drinks and simple meals like burgers and pizzas.

26. try indoor rock climbing at Triangle Rock Club

young girl rock climbing

Rock climbing is a great date activity for couples who have been together a while and already trust each other – you will need to hold each others ropes, so trust is key!

Get a day pass for Triangle Rock Club and demonstrate how well you trust each other on the climbing walls.

There are walls for all skill levels, and you can rent all the gear you need (even shoes) , plus have an orientation if you’ve never done it before.

There are some hardcore, regular rock climbers here though. Though I personally think this is quite cool to watch!

27. do a raleigh scavenger hunt

Want to do a date activity where you can work together as a team? How about a self-guided tour scavenger hunt?

You can download the Rockin Raleigh Scavenger Hunt via Viator, and be led by an interactive virtual guide around Raleigh by following a series of clues and riddles.

The hunt isn’t too challenging for locals, but if you’re new to the area, you may need a little help – so we recommend this date night activity for locals to Raleigh who are familiar with the locations and local culture.

Oh and you can add your scores to a virtual leaderboard – nothing says you’re the best couple than a scoreboard!

28. try axe throwing

Axe throwing is another activity that you’re either going to be really good at or really bad – for most of us, probably the latter!

But it’s also incredibly fun and a great way to break the ice.

If you’ve never been axe throwing before, consider a lesson to learn the techniques and tricks for hitting a bullseye!

Afterwards, you can challenge each other to a friendly game.

29. do an escape room

Mom and two daughters walking past a house

Escape Rooms are another date idea for couples who have been together a while (being locked in a room together when you’ve just met may be a little forward, in my opinion).

However, it’s also a great activity to participate in team work and learn more about each other.

As you unravel clues and unlock challenges, you’ll discover how much each other knows and see the competitive spirit unleashed.

ROOM 5280 – Raleigh Live Escape Games is one of our favorites for those who enjoy darker games, or Amazerooms is a great place for mystery-inspired games.

30. rent a paddle boat at lake johnson

A small boat in a body of water surrounded by trees

Looking for date ideas for Spring and Summer? Then how about renting a paddleboat at Lake Johnson?

We’ve already mentioned how we love hiking and stand up paddle boarding at Lake Johnson, but renting a paddle boat is a great way to be gently active whilst also enjoying the lake with some privacy.

You can also swap out a paddle boat for canoe or kayak if you prefer, but we like the paddle boats as you can sit next to each other and see each other when you talk.

Final Thoughts

There you have it, a list of unique and fun Raleigh date ideas!

Now it’s your turn, share with us one of your suggested Raleigh date night (or day) ideas in the comments below!

2 thoughts on “19 Unique and fun date ideas for Raleigh (from a couple who does them)”

  1. Tresa Debby Winans

    Love the article. We r another couple who have traveled all over NC and SC. Ck out The Willard rooftop bar and restaurant in the AC hotel in downtown Raleigh. Awesome spot ❤️

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