Where to Enjoy Afternoon Tea in the Triangle: A Delightful English Tradition

Dearest readers, sometimes, life calls for a little elegance and indulgence, and there’s no better way to embrace that than with a proper afternoon tea like the English do it. Think delicate China, steaming pots of perfectly brewed tea, and scones piled high with jam and cream – an afternoon tea is not just a meal; it’s an experience!

If you’re in the Triangle and fancy getting your “inner English” on, we’ve rounded up the best spots to enjoy this quintessential British tradition. Whether you’re celebrating a special occasion, catching up with friends, or simply treating yourself, these places offer delightful tea experiences that even the most discerning Brit would approve of.

For the most curious of our dearest readers, it is alleged that afternoon tea began in England in 1840, by Anna Stanhope, the Duchess of Bedford who desired to satisfy her peckishness during the long wait between lunch and dinner (some also say the French started it. But let’s not get involved in that battle.) I can tell you from the satisfying high teas I have had, it’s like eating lunch and dinner combined.

Washington Duke Inn

All the Triangle high tea experiences in this post include a diverse selection of teas – traditional English, herbals, with a few signature blends. Typically, you can Americanize it with a coffee OR elevate the experience with a champagne or cocktail (extra costs). Lady Bridgerton would most definitely approve of any kind of tongue wagging libation!

We’re going to start with the two we have experienced and loved that are in our neighboring Triangle communities. Oh gosh, yes, afternoon tea experiences are always worth a 30-minute drive! After writing this post, I am determined to experience every one of these high teas in the Triangle and review them!

1. Fearrington House, Pittsboro

Located in a picturesque, English-style countryside setting, Fearrington Village in Pittsboro offers a cozy yet sophisticated afternoon tea experience. If you’re looking for a true taste of England in the Triangle, this might just be the spot.

Craig and I had the pleasure of experiencing a staycation at the Relais & Châteaux Fearrington Inn, and we loved the luxurious tranquility of our stay and the incredible meal we had at their restaurant. Naturally, when my parents visited from Australia, we couldn’t resist scheduling an afternoon tea experience here.

The afternoon tea menu at Fearrington changes seasonally, offering a delightful mix of traditional and creative flavors. During our visit, we enjoyed finger sandwiches that combined classic elegance with unique twists, like black bean hummus with fire-roasted corn salsa and cotija served on cornbread—an unexpected yet delicious treat!

The desserts were the highlight, featuring exquisite French-style pastries such as lemon and mixed berry choux with berry craquelin and lemon cream, as well as fresh seasonal tarts with unique fillings. Each bite was an artful blend of texture and flavor, perfectly complementing the tea selection.

Dietary considerations are thoughtfully catered to. Both my mom and I are gluten-free, and she is also lactose-free, yet we didn’t miss out on a single treat. Our dietary-safe versions were just as indulgent, including fluffy, gluten-free scones—prepared the way the English would approve of.

Gluten-free version on the left

And if you’re bringing little ones, Fearrington even offers kids’ high tea towers, making it a delightful experience for the whole family.

• Why People Love It: The enchanting atmosphere and farm-inspired elegance make it a truly unique tea experience. Having seasonal versions allows you to enjoy this tradition in a new form every season. And hello Belted Galloway cows in the pastures just outside!
• Price: $65 per person | Prince & Princess Tea (under 12) $35
• When: Thurs – Sun: 12 – 3pm | Reservations Required
• Website
• Would the English Love It? The idyllic village charm would make them feel right at home. They’d like to battle away the French twists to the menu, but let’s face facts, there’s no pastry like a French one!

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2. Washington Duke Inn & Golf Club, Durham

This elegant spot offers a classic afternoon tea in their sunny Fairview Dining Room or on the terrace overlooking the lush golf course at the Washington Duke Inn. We instantly fell in love with this AAA Four Diamond hotel property, located on the campus of Duke University. Our first experience with both the hotel and high tea was shared with Craig’s parents, who visited us recently from Australia.

The Fairview Dining Room’s design is stunning, with its blue patterned carpet and drapes—a nod to refined British taste. The gorgeous blue chairs felt regal and had me almost plotting to sneak one home!

The elegance extended to their afternoon tea service. My gluten-free requirements were graciously accommodated, with a personalized selection that made me feel special. Their unique take on scones was a standout—one gluten-free version featured chocolate and the other cranberry, topped with your choice of strawberry jam, lemon curd, or (always) clotted cream.

Savory treats included traditional finger sandwiches alongside Southern-inspired delights like deviled eggs and a chicken salad tart—both delicious. For sweets, there was a decadent chocolate cake and a French-inspired macaron, adding an international flair to the experience.

For an extra touch of luxury, consider the Tea Royal experience, which includes a glass of champagne, mimosa, or Kir Royale. I opted for the Kir Royale and found it to be the perfect complement to the food and the sophisticated setting. They also offer a delightful kids’ afternoon tea menu, making this a special outing for the whole family.

• Why People Love It: The Washington Duke Inn delivers on elegance, charm, and impeccable service, making it a must-visit for those seeking a refined afternoon tea experience in the Triangle. 🍵✨
• Price:  per person.
• When: Thursday to Sunday afternoons from 2:30 to 4 p.m.
• Would the English Love It? The grandeur and impeccable service would certainly win their approval!

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3. Twilight Tea at The Littlest Tea Room, Raleigh

For a one-of-a-kind afternoon tea experience, head to The Littlest Tea Room, a hidden gem tucked behind a secret door inside Little Native Coffee (one of our favorite coffee shops in Raleigh). This charming tearoom feels like stepping into a whimsical storybook—part mystery, part magic, and entirely memorable. Or one could also say it’s a bit like a Speakeasy, or as they say, a speakTEASy!!

Their Twilight Tea (great for a date night) features a creative take on traditional afternoon tea with spreads like pimento cheese, chicken salad, and asparagus mousse served with crackers instead of finger sandwiches, plus a delightful charcuterie selection (this replaces the pastries found on their regular afternoon tea). Sweet bites include macarons, madeleines, and chocolate cheesecake.

Their gluten-free offerings are excellent—I had fluffy, delicious scones that rivaled any I’ve had (yes, even in England!). And the teas? So good, I ordered them to enjoy at home. We had a post of the Duskhaven (berries) and The Quiet Alchemist (chamomile, lavender) (Wait to you see the gorgeous tea pot and cups – very vintage English style)

Special Offering: On select Tuesdays, the Littlest Tea room hosts a Murder Mystery Twilight Tea, where your group enjoys the full afternoon tea service while solving a whodunit. It’s playful, immersive, and loads of fun and with the small, dark, vintage space of the tea room, it was the perfect setting! I was surprised and thrilled by how involved everyone was with their characters and the experience. We had a jovial group.

They also offer a traditional afternoon tea during the day, so whether you’re craving charm or a bit of intrigue, you’re covered. Just make sure you reserve in advanace – the Littlest Tea Room is little and very popular!

• Why People Love It: The uniqueness of the setting truly stands out. It’s an experience that begins with curiosity and ends with clotted cream.
• Price:  $40 per person
• When: Twilight tea is Thursdays, Fridays, and Saturdays with the first seating at 6pm and the last seating at 8pm. 
• Would the English Love It? They’d be intrigued by the creativity, the genuine English tea sets—and absolutely sold once they taste the gluten free scones.

4. Asali’s High Tea, Cary

This chic café in the Macgregor Village of Cary offers a modern and cultural interpretation of the traditional afternoon tea experience. Their high tea service includes a pot of tea, assorted sandwiches, labna spread, olive palmiers, and a variety of desserts such as macarons, tarts, mini scones, shortbread cookies, and Mediterranean sweets. The selection of desserts may vary based on the monthly specials curated by head baker, Hanadi Asad.

Although we have not experienced the high tea at Asali, we can confirm that their desserts are among the finest in the Triangle area. With an array of gluten-free options available, these desserts are particularly noteworthy during the Fall season. Additionally, their coffee is great!

Asali’s is a bright and cheerful place for a high tea with their patterned tiles and places of colors and patterns on the wall. It makes me feel like [m on another travel adventure, so I feel right at home. This is one unique high tea experience in Wake County I do not want to miss.

• Why People Love It: The Middle Eastern-inspired flair adds a unique touch to the classic tea service, making it stand out in the Triangle.
• Price: $46 per person. You must reserve 3 days in advance
• When: Mon-Thurs, 11am-12:30pm and 1-2:30pm. 
• Website
• Would the English Love It? They’d adore the fusion of cultures and the sophisticated presentation.

5. Pimento Tea Room, Holly Springs

Well, I guess if you’re going to have a teahouse inside an 1840 historic home, it’s a given you break out a high tea experience – southern twist required. This whimsical Pimento Tea Room in Holly Springs is a Wake County hotspot and on Sundays they offer a delightful afternoon tea in a cozy, vintage setting.

Guests can enjoy a three-tiered service with an assortment of teas, freshly baked scones with Devonshire cream and homemade jam), and an array of creative sweet and savory bites. As it’s Sunday you can choose from a pot of tea, mimosa or bloody Mary! (This afternoon tea experience just rushed to the top of my list)

• Why People Love It: The quirky décor and unpretentious ambiance make it a perfect spot for a fun afternoon outing or a unique celebration.
• Price: $35 per person
• Website
• When: Sunday Funday seatings at 11am and 1pm | Reserve in advance (request vegetarian option in advance as well. No mention of gluten free but thy do have gluten free on their regular menu, including scones, so ask away.)
• Would the English Love It? The playful vibe and attention to detail would leave them thoroughly charmed! Please, sir, can I have some more?

6. Sugar Magnolia Cafe, Wake Forest

For a cozy and inviting atmosphere, head to Sugar Magnolia Cafe in Wake Forest, where their afternoon tea has become a beloved favorite among locals.

What sets this tea apart is the variety of package options available to suit all tastes and appetites. Whether you’re in the mood for something light or a full traditional spread, there’s something for everyone. Options range from tea with a choice of one savory and three desserts to a dessert-only high tea (complete with scones) or the indulgent three-tiered tower that includes everything!

For families, they also offer similar packages designed for kids, making this an ideal activity to enjoy with little ones in Raleigh. (It’s going on our family bucket list!) While we have not experienced the high tea here, their Turkey Bacon Chipotle Panini (I had mine on gluten free) is one of the best sandwiches I‘ve had in Wake County

• Why People Love It: The homely neighborhood vibe and friendly staff make you feel like you’re at tea in someone’s home.
• Price: $21.95 – $34.95 – per person | $12.25 – $20.95 per child | They do have gluten-free bread, but most desserts won’t be. Always ask!)
• When: During Mon – Sat cafe hours | You must reserve in advance
• Website
• Would the English Love It? It’s close to what you’d find in a small English village—homely, friendly, and affordable. Perfect for an afternoon chit chat with your friends.

7. The Umstead Hotel & Spa, Cary

If luxury is what you’re after, the Forbes Five-Star Umstead Hotel in Cary sets the gold standard for afternoon tea. Just hearing the words “Umstead Hotel” instantly makes me feel relaxed and pampered – it’s truly a stunning property. The best part? You don’t have to stay here to indulge in their incredible food offerings. (Pro tip: Their Herons restaurant is one of only 64 Forbes Five-Star restaurants in the world!)

For afternoon tea, settle into their elegant Lounge, surrounded by art-adorned walls, a mesmerizing David Chihuly sculpture, and the soothing sounds of a live harpist. The ambiance is as exquisite as the tea itself.

The Umstead’s tea service includes an assortment of finely brewed teas, petite sandwiches that any true Englishman would relate to, pastries that would make the French swoon, and—of course—warm buttermilk scones served with Devonshire cream, lemon curd, and seasonal jam.

• Why People Love It: The experience is as elegant as it gets, with live harp music often setting the tone. It’s perfect for celebrations or a sophisticated escape from everyday life.
• Price: $68 per person. Reserve In advance and notify if any dietary requests
• When:  Wednesday – Sunday: 2:00pm – 3:30pm
• Website
• Would the English Love It? Oh, dearest readers, this is where you’ll find all the Lords and Ladies looking for the catch of the season!

We enjoyed a cocktail and snacks at the Umstead’s lounge when our friends from Scottsdale visited. It was very enjoyable. You can see more in our 2 day sophisticated itinerary of Raleigh.

8. The Carolina Inn, Chapel Hill

The Carolina Inn, with its stately columns and grand porticos, has been a beloved landmark and gathering space for UNC students, alumni, residents, and visitors for over 100 years. This rich history is reflected in their afternoon tea experience, which combines nostalgia, grandeur, impeccable service, and Southern charm.

At this iconic spot in Chapel Hill, afternoon tea is served with a Southern twist in their onsite restaurant, Crossroads Chapel Hill. The menu features traditional sweet and savory delights, including the quintessential high tea staple—homemade scones with clotted cream and jam—along with pastry specialties that pay homage to their Southern roots.

Tea lovers will also appreciate their unique signature blends, such as “Carolina Inn Blueberry,” Almond Coconut Macaroon, and Crème Brûlée—each as indulgent as it sounds. While we have stayed at the Carolina Inn and eating dinner at their Crossroads Restaurant (which we loved) we have not yet enjoyed their afteroon tea. It is high on our list to try next. It’s sure to be a delightful extension of their storied charm and hospitality. You can read our review of a stay at the Carolina Inn.

• Why People Love It: The setting oozes Southern charm and historic ambiance. It feels like stepping back in time while indulging in a timeless tradition. Extra thumbs up for the cloe-to-authentic clotted cream
• Special Offerings:
• Price: $40 – $70 per person.
• When: Saturdays & Sundays: 2pm – 4pm
• Website
• Would the English Love It? The blend of Southern hospitality and British tradition (with proper clotted cream) makes it a unique experience—perfect for anglophiles!

Tips for Your Tea Experience

• Book Ahead: Afternoon tea is often by reservation only, so plan ahead!
• Request what you need: so far I’ve found the afternoon tea experiences very accommodating to my gluten free needs, and for our coffee requests to enjoy with the towered goodies as well. Don’t be afraid to ask BUT always ask in advance AND whether it will be an extra charge.
• Dress the Part: Some venues encourage dressing up, so bring out your best tea-time attire. Besides it makes it more of a special occasion
• Bring Your Appetite: It may seem delicate, but the portions add up quickly! We haven’t left a high tea experience yet feeling hungry!
• Add on another experience Especially if traveling to another Triangle town or city for the afternoon tea experience, plan on activities before or after to make a day out of it. We had a lovely walk through Duke Gardens and Duke University before our Washington Duke Inn high tea in Durham.

What’s there to love about afternoon tea anyway?

Well dearest reader, afternoon tea is more than just a meal; it’s an event. It’s about slowing down, savoring good company, and treating yourself to little luxuries. Whether it’s the crisp linen napkins, the clink of fine China, or the decadent treats, every detail makes it special. But, the most special feature of all, are those warm and fluffy scones (the English kind please) topped with jam and clotted cream.

So, dust off your fascinator, perfect your pinky lift, and enjoy one of the Triangle’s most delightful experiences. Scones with jam and cream are waiting! And if you don’t like them, send them my way! Let us know if you try any of these spots—or if you have a hidden gem to add to our list. Cheers to tea time! 🍵

Want to know how they do it in England? Well we experienced an afternoon tea in Kensington London with a difference – science theme, complete with billowing dry ice smoke, and bubbling concoctions. We also had a Bridgerton style afternoon tea in Oxford!